Whose at fault? Me or my parents?

Doesn't seem like all the required information to make a real opinion about this is there. Most people have a hard life. It's better to not dwell on what could have been. Instead weigh your new options. It might not be the life you've dreamed for yourself but most of us are in the same boat on that. Don't waste your time worrying so much about your parents. Take time for yourself. Get some sleep. You would be surprised at how different a day can be with enough z's. It's not how you got there that matters. It's where you can take yourself from there. Anything is possible with enough determination and hard work. Just keep your chin up and roll with the punches until you can be who you want. We have all had parents and not many of them are quick to let children be themselves. Wish you the best and I hope this helps even the littlest bit.